Things to prepare for the Photoshoot

Hope this comes in useful! ~FM & Jas

Months before:

  1. Exercise regime, especially for the girls
    • Slim down/ build up to look pretty for the pictures that last forever!
      (Jas did her abs exercise diligently, and ate lesser to slim down. Got rid of her little tummy and lost 5 kg!)
    • Exercise to tone up, but dun get obvious tan line. Maintain an even tone, dun go for beach activities before that! :P (although photoshop will take care of any ugly tan lines. ^_^)
  2. Girls will want to start leaving your hair pretty long before meeting your Make-Up Artist (MUA) during trial make-up (depends on how fast your hair grows too, but longer is better than too short, of course; too long can always cut). Hair length around mid-back should be good (the setting of the hair to make the curls will shorten the hair a lot).

1 month before:

  1. Grow your eyebrows so your MUA can trim it nicely. Or if you already have shaped eyebrows, maintain them neat.
  2. SLEEP WELL. Nothing works better than many nights of good sleep to get rid of eye bags and dark eye rings.
    (Jas guai guai slept before 12mn for about 2 weeks before! ^_^)
  3. Guys – time the cutting of your hair such that u’ll have hair that’s one+ week into a fresh cut. Neat but not overly short.
  4. Girls – if u wanna go for manipedi, should start letting your nails grow longer, especially if you want to do French. Dun have your nails too rounded when u cut, slightly square nails are best.

A week before:

  1. Trial makeup session should be around 1-2 weeks before the photoshoot. Ask your MUA how you should cut/color your hair to get the maximum impact for the PS. Layered hair would be good cos it’s easier to style.
  2. Schedule to color your hair about a week before the PS.
    (Jas happened to have bleached golden hair at the last ~15cm of her hair. During the trial makeup, our MUA Angeline said to leave those alone. Then Jas went to Angeline’s shop, where Angeline layered her hair more into a sharp V-shape, and got Jas to highlight streaks of a similar bronze/golden color throughout her hair. These came into very good effect when Angeline styled her hair during the PS. Check out our pictures in the previous blog post for the full glory of her artwork!)
  3. Ethnic costumes – should have chosen and reserved it previously, and make sure that the appropriate size is available.
    (We din do that during our trial makeup. :P but turned out all fine, cos Jas arrived early on the photoshoot day, and got to try the costumes and choose beforehand. The cheongsam was of the prefect size for Jas, so that was quite heng. But if we had wanted to have the kua, then there would be trouble, cos the kuas were all very huge in size.)
  4. Groom’s suits – should have been chosen for each outfit to match, and decided beforehand.
    (We din do that but waited for the actual day of the photoshoot where FM decided on the spot what to wear and BZ gave him the appropriate matching suit/scarfs/ties/shoes, but all turned out well. :D )
  5. Facial one week before, to make the face more radiant, and also supposed to make the powder/makeup stay and more longer-lasting.
    • no squeezing of pimples few days before the PS (or powder wun stick!)
    • some pple say can go for body scrub/ face masks before that. But do it at ur own discretion. If your haven been using these kinda stuff, DO NOT try new products at this time for fear of allergic reactions/breakouts!

    (About a week before, Jas went to Angeline for a deep cleansing facial (if interested, call Angeline to make an appointment beforehand) and FM went for a facial at Spa Elements (we had a Citibank promotion card). In general, we just make sure to not eat too much fried/chilli hot stuff. And no chocolates for FM until photoshoot is over! Heh.)

  6. Additional: You may wanna look thru pple’s albums, think of some poses u might wanna do. The photographers will have ideas of their own, but probably will ask you to use your own creativity and pose on your own too.

Day before:

  1. Manicure/pedicure for girls – for the neater simpler kind, go for French, additional artwork/glittery additions as u desire. Best to do in the evening, so u wun scratch your nails for the rest of the day.
    Guys, just go trim your nails short and neat.
  2. Girls – Shave clean! You don’t want unsightly hair in ur pics!
    Guys – if u grow moustache/beard, trim neatly. If not, shave clean.

Packing for the photoshoot:

  • Guys
    • white socks to wear with the white suit
    • shirts and ties of all colors, shades and stripes (so that the photographer/MUA can help you color-pick the best attire to match your bride.) Include one white shirt.
    • black leather shoes (the bridal studio should have a pair of white shoes to go with your white suit)
    • if you have your own MTM suit jacket, bring it and wear it.
      Yes, the bridal studio provides suits for you, and they have various sizes to fit your build. But still, nothing shows you off better than a MTM suit (assuming it was well-made) that is specifically cut to your build. More often than not, sleeve length will most likely be too long for you (suit sleeves should end at wrist, while shirt cuffs should end at base of thumb). Anyway, I dare say most guys would need at least one suit to wear on the rare occasions where it’s needed.
      (FM made his a year back and it has seen pretty good use this past year (more wear = value for money!))

Another important thing about guys and jackets is, DON’T BUTTON EVERYTHING! Jackets with 3 buttons in front only need the middle button fastened, while jackets with 4 buttons can have the middle 2 buttons fastened. Browsing through other people’s wedding albums, you can see some guys who look quite toot with all buttons fastened like a kid. Bad karma to the photographer for not informing those guys!

  • Girls
    • Bridal shoes
    • Sandals to change into when you’re not taking pics. So you wun get tired wearing ur heels the entire day! (especially useful if you’re going to the beach)
    • Own jewellery if want, pretty (not too expensive) necklaces and earrings
    • Makeup kit – in case u need to patch up a little – but we din use
  • In General
    • Wedding rings + engagement rings (if any)
    • Water bottle with drinking straw (although BZ had plenty to offer, and a good stock in the car too. :D )
    • Camera to capture preparation moments (we have pics for the earlier part of day, but less and less as we go along cuz we’re both too busy!)
    • Props – buy or dig out whatever other items of personal interest that you’re interested in including in the pictures. Many bring their motorbikes, cars, teddy bears, musical instruments etc.
      (For us, brought ring box, sparklers, proposal rose, balloons, rose petals amongst others)
    • Casual wear for the beach, or you can just wear one of your outdoor gowns to go kick water in the sea.
    • Lunch, or you can call-in fast food. Or the groom can go buy lunch from a coffeeshop nearby while the bride does her makeup, although I doubt its advisable to run around sweating with your makeup on. And if you’re interested, ask the photographer to take pictures while you two eat your lunch in the studio.
    • Light snacks if u’ll be hungry – although we din feel hungry at all, and wouldn’t have time to eat anyways due to our hectic schedule
    • Tissue paper/ wet tissue if u want, though we din end up using.
    • Umbrella – in case it rains
    • ~$100 to pay off your MUA for ampoules, fake eyelashes etc.
  • DO NOT bring
    • Valuables. It’s a full day of hectic running around, digging for shirts and personal props, endless makeup etc. You won’t have time to look after your stuff. In addition to the bridal shop staff, there may also be another couple doing their photoshoot (BZ has two MUAs and two photogs and two studios, so two couples can take pics in parallel)

Morning of photoshoot:

  1. DO not wash ur hair in the morning of the photoshoot! Supposed to leave hair dry for styling!
  2. To wear for girls: button down/zip down top, so it’s easy to change w/o ruining ur makeup
  3. Have a good breakfast!

We thoroughly enjoyed our photoshoot, although it stretched from 10am to 10pm, and we were tired at the end of the day. Photoshoots are fun: Just relax, be happy and enjoy yourselves to let the natural happiness shine! A great way to ensure pretty pics! :D

Love. Passionately. – the EZ-Link card

Guest post by FM.

Love. Passionately. originated as a pretty bookmark from Borders that FM gave to Jas for three simple reasons:

  1. the bookmark was pretty
  2. FM wanted to encourage Jas to read more widely, more often
  3. the bookmark encapsulated FM’s ideal of love most succinctly

Admittedly, the phrase was not pasted above our mirrors to be read ten times over every morning and night. Nonetheless, on hindsight, I believed that we have lived out our unspoken maxim to the maximum we can.

When planning for the perfect proposal, my cousin Kris suggested including a personalized EZ-Link card from Singapore Mint. As each of my 12 planned gifts carried a specific, unique message of love, the EZ-Link card was themed as a follow-up to the bookmark. The picture chosen was taken in a public park in Philadelphia, and best epitomizes the spirit of the message to Love. Passionately.

Our personalized EZ-Link card

(Unfortunately, the ordering process takes two weeks and more due to the holiday season, and was not to be ready in time to be one of the 12 perfect proposal gifts. Too bad. :( )

Friends often express awe that our relationship survived the long distance, even without any basis or background to begin with. (Three weeks from First Sight to Steady, another three weeks till our long distance separation.) I guess the best answer I can give in reply is the same old maxim: we simply loved. passionately. we can add a lot more adjectives to describe the love: unselfishly, truthfully, expressively, patiently, supportive(ly), unreserved(ly), blah, blah, blah… But sometimes, in the end, too many adjectives add too much pressure to perform up to an artificial standard that no party is comfortable with, for I believe the quality of love is different between every couple.

So, to all the couples in love out there, I leave you my two cents worth. Make light of all the specifics which you’ll likely forget after a few months of dating. Stick to loving your partner with all your heart, and the specifics will all come naturally. Just

Love. Passionately.

Love. Passionately. – the bookmark

Love. Passionately. - the bookmark

From: Jas
Sent: Tuesday, September 14, 2004 3:11 PM
To: FM
Subject: i cannot believe this………

Hey dear…

sobz…. today is a bad day… this whole mad rush at duke, all the work, all the tests and thus all the lack of sleep is getting to me… arghz… guess wat… the bookmark? i really really like it so much, i told u i immediately used it for my seminar book? this morning i was carrying the book in my hand on the way to french class, somehow it slipped out of the book, fell dunno where… i retraced my steps like 3, 4 times liao, cant find it… it either got picked up by someone, or it’s lying buried somewhere in the grass or something… ARGHZ! i’m so so sorry… i really dunno what happened… it just slipped out… and i like it so much… arghz…. i want it back… =..(

and worse still, i gotta lead a discussion next tues, on the first half of the book, in other words, read the book, summarise and post reading notes for the class before the class… arghz… and organic chem test is on mon!!! howhow? i need to read the chapters, do my org chem qns and practise/ revise for the test! BY MON! and the reading notes for discussion… and not to mention i need to do my maths NOW, it’s due 2mr…. arghz…. what’s wrong? y am i struggling so much??? soooooooo tired… so sleep deprived…. oh well………..

anyway, abt the bookmark, i want to get it… really, since i lost it… we’ll talk abt it when i see u online… =( sorry, i really din want that to happen… so devastated when i discovered it was missing from my book… sobz….

gotta drag myself to work…. somehow….

Stressed, tired, and sad little girl…….

i need to pull thru this!!!


From: Jas
Sent: Tuesday, September 14, 2004 4:04 PM
To: FM
Subject: twist of fate…. =)

Hey darling…

the bookmark was ALWAYS meant to be mine… my roommate was so nice, she offered to walk out with me along the path to help me look for it… =)=) and this time somehow i spotted it!!!!! yay!!! haha… now this gives me just the badly needed motivation to get my work done!

-love passionately, my work???-

heh… i can finish everything! gringrin… yup…. love ya!

ur little girl, Jas…

Jas marries FM: at a glance

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